Thursday, February 19, 2009

Saddest day of my life

I believed the day my Aunt died would always continue to be the worse day of my life! As I have always had such a hard time with it! I have always just seen it getting worse and worse! I mean how can you deal with it, counseling, talks, reading, crying, praying; nothing really has helped or prepared me for this day!

The only thing I did know is I didn't want to be married and be not living with the person or not having a MARRIAGE!

I felt as though it was my only choice, but if so...

WHY DOES IT HURT SO MUCH??????????? WHY DOES IT MAKE ME WANT TO DIE?

I knew this day would come but I wasn't ready for it.

Friday, February 6, 2009

Divorce

It is an unfortunate fact that divorce has become commonplace in our society. The pain and anguish this is created in a divorce has a ripple effect on the family unit. Often family members are confused as how to act around the now divorced couple. Children are often used as pawns between their father and mother. Each one may try to gain the upper hand in the battle for their children's affection. Getting divorced may be necessary in cases when a relationship cannot be salvaged. However, the couple should keep in mind that the whole family unit will be affected by this change.